How to Not Die Alone

Ury uses scientific research to challenge common dating myths. I'm curious how she decided which studies to highlight and how she balanced research with practical tips.

While understanding attachment styles clarified some of my relationship patterns, I wonder if it risks pigeonholing people too much. What are others' experiences with applying this in real life?

Many of her suggestions feel counterintuitive but effective. I'm interested in what led to choosing these particular strategies over more traditional advice.